Speaker 1: Hi this Amanda woods I'm the healthy finances program specialist and today we're going to be discussing the stigma and stress associated with financial and security and financial struggle welcome to the healthy programs telecast where we're going to discuss the impact of stress on the various aspects of our lives and today's telecast we'll delve deeper into how financial stress can add stress to our lives in a myriad of different ways so today we have with us Amanda woods the healthy finances program specialists from OSU Extension and we're so glad to have you on Amanda can you please tell us a little bit about yourself and your role in extension sure so I'm the healthy finances program specialist and so what I do is support our educators statewide when it comes to their financially focused programming and so we offer programming that spans the lifespan when it comes to financial health and wellness and so really trying to increase financial literacy across the state and empower people to make the healthy best decisions for their financial lives awesome thank you very much so we'll be talking today about financial stress yeah sure many of us can absolutely relate to can you speak a little bit about the financial struggles that many Americans face today absolutely so this is actually a topic that's really close to my heart I feel like so many Americans are struggling financially month-to-month it varies the kind of across you know all of our homes some months were okay some ones were not but studies have shown there was a Federal Reserve study done pretty recently that showed that roughly roughly a little under 50 percent of respondents would not have $500 four to five hundred dollars to offer in the case of a financial emergency and so that's five hundred dollars in savings that they would either have to borrow in order to pay or you know ask for asked for money from family or even sell stuff so that's kind of telling to the fact that many Americans are just unable to save even five hundred dollars and so why is that right a lot of a lot of families are struggling financially and there are a lot of reasons why but I think the big thing to stay kind of before I get into the why this is happening is that this financial and security faces many Americans so we kind of think when financial struggle when financial insecurity hits it's usually lower income or people that we would consider to maybe be living in a poverty like situation but really financial struggle impacts everybody so gainfully employed college graduates people who are getting ready to entire retire so like this is an issue that faces many Americans and there's a lot of reasons why that is so we have more volatile income that we maybe have in the past so a lot of people are kind of going into a more gig kind of economy a lot of people are doing ride-sharing jobs and so maybe people's income varies month-to-month we also have you know our expenses can go up and down from month-to-month - which can kind of make it hard to plan right if something's always happening it becomes then hard to save and so these are kind of the issues that that people are facing these financial struggles across you know across all of Americans these are things that kind of face us and so a lot of families for month-to-month are having to make the decision of how are they going to put food on the table how are they going to put gas in their cars these are you know many Americans that are being faced with these decisions and this and the stress every month absolutely and I mean that's somewhat surprising to hear I feel like that so many people can be facing this struggle yeah so it's definitely important to talk about and I can only imagine the stress that can accompany a tight financial situation can you speak a little bit about the negative impact of stress associated with such a financial struggle as well as the barrier that stigma around asking for help might exist sure so this kind of points to you just said I would be surprised to hear that many Americans struggle financially and the reason that is is because many Americans won't talk about the fact that they're struggling financially so I'll talk a little bit about that the stress first right so a lot of Americans if you're struggling financially there is that inherent stress that says how am I gonna pay my rent this month how am I gonna buy groceries this month how am I gonna save for retirement when I'm just struggling to make ends meet month to month that in and of itself is a really stressful thing to experience especially when it's constant right but then you've got the stigma that's associated to financial struggle which causes his own bit of stress right so not only on my stressed as to how I'm gonna make ends meet how I'm gonna pay my bills but I'm also stressed because you know my friends and family they seem to all be doing really well why am i failing at this like why am i doing so poorly when it comes to finances why if I made the decisions to put me here so it's basically like a two pronged like stress attack right so I'm gonna call it like a failure to writing that feeling of defeat almost well we see you know we see the people in our lives social media certainly doesn't help when it comes to this you're seeing everybody around you doing so well perceived Pete to be doing this as much as I on the surface perhaps right on the surface and so when you see these things you know your family and your friends taking trips and buying houses and buying cars and doing all of these things you you perceived it too you've done something wrong why have I failed at this you know very you know this thing that we're expected to all do so well right um I work hard and I I do what I'm supposed to do I should be also kind of on top financially so there there's a bit of a stigma when it comes to being able to talk about that because you know we're we don't want to be perceived as having failed financially totally and so why do you think the stigma might exist so I mean I feel like there are a few reasons why this exists right so it's kind of drilled into us from when we're young that if you work hard and you make all the right decisions and you do everything right then you'll be doing well right like Vasiliy yeah that's the American definitely heard that work hard and it'll pay off and tons of Americans work hard and we still are struggling financially and so because that we're told that from such a young age we perceived to ourselves to have done something wrong no one wants to admit to have messed up financially you know and so I think that's probably one reason that make sense yeah and so and also you know keeping up with the people around you keeping up with the Joneses as that is that frees and this is where it comes into play because like I said when we see our friends and families or the people around us even in our community doing so well there's that that stigma comes into play because we then are perceiving ourselves to not be doing as well we've we've messed up in some way and that is now causing us to also be struggling financially which if we could get past that stigma and talk about it the Jones is the people around you your family and friends are likely also struggling financially right so it's that it's that barrier to us being able to talk about definitely distress and I can imagine what that internal struggle that that would then lead to stress and putting a harder part to like your mental and emotional health can you speak a little bit about on how you think financial instability or insecurity can play a big role in being detrimental on to your mental and emotional health yeah absolutely so it kind of goes back to the stressors that I mentioned earlier right so that constant fear of not being able to make ends meet it eats at you if you're constantly thinking about it right so every time you go to spend money even if it's on you know it's not frivolous spending if you're putting right you know food on the table if you're buying gas you're gonna be constantly stressed about the money that you're spending it is all the time on people's minds who are struggling financially the Americans like Psychiatric Association I believe did a study recently Psychological Association sorry did a study recently that pointed to money being the number one stress in their respondents lives so the financial the financial issues that we face on a daily basis or is the number one stressor also that these people were facing so just that fear alone that stress can you know stress is not great for the body we obviously know that or and it's not great for us mentally and emotionally if we're constantly afraid of what the next day is gonna hold what what is my mailbox going to hold is there gonna be a new bill um is something gonna go wrong is my car gonna break down and how am I gonna how am I going to you know address that approach that and so that that I think plays a fugitive ly impacts our our physical and emotional health that makes a lot of sense that that type of stress being related to money can bleed into literally every aspect of one's life it does and so do you think it will also affect one's physical health and in what ways yeah absolutely so a lot of people when they're struggling financially are having to make decisions that they perceive are necessary so if I'm struggling I might not purchase a healthier food options what I perceive is a cheaper food option right so we stopped taking care of ourselves physically because we're focused on how are we gonna make ends meet that becomes the priority and then our health kind of takes a backseat the same can be said for doctor's visits or even filling prescriptions when your funds are tight and these things cost money decisions then have to be made so for some people it could be a decision like am I going to put food on the table for my family this month or am I going to fill a prescription or am I going to go to the doctor because that can be a big fear doctor's visits and for most people will cost money the prescriptions that you get these things all cost money and when money is something that you don't necessarily have something that's already causing so much stress in your life that can be a big issue and a big barrier for some people to then go out and do that as well and then just the whole when you're dealing with stress and whatever else that does you know to your body into emotionally or it kind of becomes a barrier to then you just taking care of yourself in general right so not going out and being active I'm not eating right and taking care of yourself because the stress can be all-consuming for some people so it just kind of becomes a priority and then the rest of it you know just doesn't feel like as much of a priority which you know can eat away at our physical and mental health and make everything else that much harder no absolutely and we've seen this a lot in public health as it relates to nutrition or the obesity epidemic that a lot of it does come back to finances and do you feel like you're able to go exercise or is there a safe place if you can't afford a gym things like that right yeah that access - right exactly if you're you know perceiving that you're not able to even put groceries on the on the table then are you gonna go and get it gym membership or are you going to spend the time or is that a priority so yeah it can all it can all definitely kind of boil back to just affecting our overall health and wellness absolutely and about having a family is hard to you know if you're prioritizing your kids or your spouse above yourself whether it comes to health or whatever just figuring out where to dole out that money absolutely totally thank you for talking about that and obviously we've heard that you know there can be many different aspects of how financial stress can play a role in our lives so what are some of the things that we can do to help mitigate this stress sure so I think one of the biggest things that we can do about financial stress is talking about it right it can help in a lot of different ways so talking about it first of all would help kind of mitigate that stigma anyways mm-hmm so if you hear me say man I'm having a really tough couple of months financially or I'm really struggling to kind of make ends meet and here's why it would make you more comfortable to then say oh my gosh I need to understand me too right and I've had a lot of those situations recently where I've opened up about financial struggles just with moving and doing different things and the person sitting across from me then saying oh my gosh like I completely understand that right so just being able to connect with people and understanding that you're not alone when you're dealing with these financial issues because I feel like financial struggles are typically something that we tend to take on by ourselves when that's first of all not a great way to accomplish these things and it just isn't great for mental health either right no of course not when you're dealing with stress when you're dealing with anything that's affecting you emotionally and physically it's best to be able to open that door and be able to talk about it right that's one thing opening up and totally about it but also when you're able to kind of overcome that stigma and you're able to begin talking about the fact that you're struggling you're then able to reach out and access those resources and supports that can help you overcome the financial struggle there was a FINRA financial capability study I believe just kind of pointed to the overall financial wellness of Americans and one of the most telling points of that study one of the things that hit me the hardest was financial literacy oh yeah and that study as well as a couple of a couple of other study is kind of pointed to the fact that a lot of Americans are financially illiterate so sure we are making decisions about our life and our finances but we don't always know why we're making those decisions or whether it was the best decision and so financial literacy being educated about how to make the best financial choices is really important to them so having that that literacy having that education will not only help you get out of the financial hole that you might be in there and kind of help you prevent that in the future right so being able to get past that stress and opening up and getting you know breaking down that stigma being able to talk about it then opens you up to a whole world of resources and support and education that exists to kind of help you overcome right so absolutely once you're able to talk about it you're then able to help yourself kind of out of it definitely and I feel like talking about it beforehand and creating prevention strategies is better than the alternative right letting things getting so bad that then you're having to kind of backtrack right exactly and I know even for me just like little things that I've tried to do now that I am you know living on my own and whatever just shopping ads at the grocery store rather than buying just whatever I want to make that week you know trying to find once in season little things like that so I can totally relate to that yes I definitely don't know other big financial decisions that I'm gonna have to make investing whatever I really don't know it much about that and I feel like that's a lot for our generation am i right in thinking that no it is so that is honestly an area so I have the same thought right a couple weeks ago and so I did a poll with some friends I sent out some some tax some Facebook messages and I just asked a lot of people that are kind of in our age group yeah what's your knowledge of basically your financial life so where do you think that you are financially and how are you preparing for a financial future right basic question question that I feel like we should all be addressing in some way and I would say most of the people who got back to me you know some of them were like yeah I feel pretty good I'm doing this and doing that but most people were very honest by saying I don't really know what my plan for the future looks like and so that's that's kind of a big thing but and not to me is also a stressor to how do i financially prepare for the future and I imagine that's on a lot of people we're gonna give a howl right right how do I find that how do I find that information how do I you know go about doing that maybe I have guilt about having not started planning you know and so those are also things that I feel like talking about yeah and understanding that all of that information exists in the world for you so these are things that you can definitely help yourself overcome you can start you know saving now for the future like there are a ton of new products which we can talk about later that can kind of help even you know younger people who might not have you know retirement account through work especially with you know different jobs a lot of people are working maybe for themselves a lot of people are doing you know just different things so there's still an opportunity for people to to set themselves up financially for the future that's wonderful to think about and I know I wasn't really aware of what resources existed not that I've ever really asked the question before and how I know that I should especially as I start setting things up just recently married all of that but so I found that there were a lot of really cool resources once I got hired by extension yeah so could you talk to us a little bit about what extension has to offer in the way of financial wellness sure so we actually do a lot and I'll speak to a couple of different things when it comes to an our approach to financial wellness and so the big thing I think that we love to do is prevention right so we have financial literacy programming starting as early as preschool Wow yeah the Smart Start with money is a preschool financial literacy program and it just really starts kids thinking about their financial future from that age how to make those decisions I mean obviously catered to the age group sure we're not teaching preschoolers investments but I don't know how to balance a checkbook not a thing but yeah so we're getting it in their mind that their financial health is in their hands right I heard somebody and I couldn't probably quote this statistic directly but we start forming our opinion on money the way that we are going to approach money in our own lives as early as like six or seven so when we're young we're watching the people around us spend kind of taking that on as well and I I mean would spend a lot like I watched my parents spend and you know coming right out of college I wasn't financially in a place where my parents were when I'm watching them break exactly you had I had a lot of that education from a younger age I you know maybe some financial stumbles that I took short after graduation would have been prevented because I would have had that education right so having that prevention in place really arming people with knowledge when it comes to making those financial decisions increasing financial literacy in the state of Ohio and really all over yeah that's kind of you know a big thing that we aim to do oh great yeah but we also offer financial programming across the state for maybe people who need a little bit of help when it comes to money management so for adults as well with things like budgeting with things like you know basic money management which are which are honestly skills and tools that can help us get out of those finance a lot less right so maybe our financial stress comes from the fact that maybe we're in debt we've maybe charged a little too much on credit cards I I imagine this is a very common stressful having that dad and so taking advantage of these classes that we offer this programming that's offered across the state could really help people in charge right taking control of their financial lives so creating a budget understanding how to best manage their money understanding their credit score and how that works because a lot of people don't know their credit score or how to access it which is honestly one of the biggest topics that I think a lot of our money management kind of because it's good to know where you're starting shortly people see a lot of commercials about that too so it's probably a pretty common topic I would think it is and I think that's like the biggest square run square one for anyone to start even if you have no intention of accessing extension programming understanding where you are because I think when that stress kicks in and we we some might bury their heads a little bit right you're struggling financially things are spiraling I'd rather not know like we've all had those those you know months where we're like I don't really want to check my bank I don't know what's in there but for some people this can go on for a while and so understanding where you are financially is a great starting point and extension professionals can help you do that we can give you the education and the tools that you need to to see where you are and then start working towards a more you know stable financial future and so we do that totally and you know also our representative for America States correct I am so I coordinator high in the saves and so I'm a huge advocate for saving even if it's just saving for emergency savings my biggest push usual saving hopefully saving some money for the future we all know that's important but being able to protect ourselves against those financial disasters that might come up you know every now and then is is huge you know having a savings account even if it's five hundred dollars which is I recommend for any emergency savings okay it's key and so what we do through Ohio saves through America saves all it is is social marketing right so we want people to understand the importance of saving we want to give them the education to be again to do that on themselves so one of the biggest pushes for Ohio saves through America saves is automatic saving mmm that's a great idea you don't even think about it don't have to think about it and so that can look like a lot of different things for people look I have money so a lot of people will do it through their paycheck right on so if you're able to at the beginning of every month every time we get paid a portion of my my income just automatically drops into savings I never see it it never exists for me it's just automatically being saved awesome which is helpful because it's a lot harder when you're making the decision every month to save so we really just promote the idea of automatic savings because it will help it'll help you I think more than you realize down the road so that's a big one and there's a lot of products that can kind of help you know support that idea of automatic savings oh yeah I won't name any directly because you know not here to promote but I use one and every time I use my bank card to shop it rounds up two dollars for me okay and so at the end of the month whatever money I've saved and that this one's specifically nice because you can also set rules and if you maybe shop at fast-food or do something you weren't planning on doing it'll also kick a little extra over and so that money you can access if you know your funds are running low so it's it's not in a savings product that is hard to access which is great a lot of people need that money to be a little fluid but at the end of the month I just roll it over into my normal savings account and that's maybe a hundred bucks that I hadn't planned on saving but did so automatically that's awesome to think about like two dollars here and there can all of a sudden add up to a hundred at the end of it it can just these little things that you do nobody is asking us to save like a thousand dollars at a time right right little things can make a big difference and I think that's that maybe the fear that a lot of people have when they're saying I don't have the money to save or I can't save yeah sure you might not have the money to save a couple hundred dollars a month that's most of us really exactly but a lot of us can you know kick in a couple bucks here and there and especially when it's happening behind the scenes it's happening automatic right you're not making that decision don't have to think about it you are making the decision to buy the latte go that's true so I feel like if you have that money and what's another two bucks that just goes into savings so the fees are these are all things that can help kind of reverse that situation right and kind of why I point to these apps or maybe these other you know non-traditional financial products is that there's probably a resource or a tool for anyone that'll work for them to help them save so especially thinking about our generation of Millennials like we just talked about that's something that I think would be really appealing to us I can absolutely really it's the latte thing hmm I have since purchased like an at-home coffee maker my own coffee syrups and it's finite it does save me a lot of funding yeah and that way I think is a really creative way to kind of turn around and put people in control right I can still enjoy my coffee yeah and I can still make it the way I want it but I have to go spend five bucks to do it but you know you're saving that money in the long run and I think that's you know it goes back to that stress of being financially out of control of our lives so making those decisions saying instead of stopping for a coffee every day or every other day I'm gonna you know buy this now that's gonna save me this and it puts you in control yes which i think is one of the biggest things that we can do we really need to advocate for our financial health by making those decisions by actively making those decisions that will put us in a more secure future oh absolutely and so thinking about kind of taking control and learning more about our financial situation can you speak a little bit specifically about what extension has to offer the community members so resources that they can know to go look for sure so a lot of times when it comes to accessing extension programming I would always encourage people to just talk to their local extension agent right extension educator so contact your local office and they'll tell you a little bit about what they have to offer there our programming really does kind of run the gamut when it comes to financial wellness and a lot of it is focused on this very basic financial you know education and wellness so we offer one of our biggest programs is real money real world yeah we offer and love those so you know parents have your kids talk to their teachers maybe if it's not in their school these this program really does it's interesting it puts students in it's a simulation right so putting them in the driver's seat when they're making those financial decision and for a lot of people it can be those financial decisions that steer us in the wrong direction or you know kind of get us into that and doing these things know they're buying a house they're buying a car they are understanding that their education and that their career choice will impact their income so that's a great I think preventative tool that we offer I love having been part of these simulations a couple times and hearing what the kids have to say yeah you know like you said they're used to seeing how their parents are spending and when they're used to living a certain way but once you're on your own that might not be the right way so hearing kids come and say oh I definitely need to go to college because I'd rather this income versus this income those types of things like it's really telling but it's cool that it seems to be making an impact for them yeah it's great and it's interesting because it kind of reflects life right yeah so a lot of the students will spend spend spend I want designer clothes I want the top-of-the-line food choices I want all these things and then there's this booth called the financial advice that exists for when they've run out of money which many of them as you can attest to volunteering will yep and so then it kind of puts them in the situation of looking at maybe what are some of the financial decisions that I made what could I do differently what you know how can i reorganize my spending and so that's what a lot of us are doing now in life right the financial decisions did I make what could I have done differently or do differently moving forward so yeah real money real world great product great program for for students but we have a couple of other programs money 101 is a great one I believe it has gone through peer review and so it's ready and available to be used so if it's something that you have an interest in call your extension educator ask them about maybe if they're gonna be offering that or if they could offer that but I pretty sure it's for different program for different you know dates for the program okay that really it is meant to put people in control of where they are financially in order and overcome those struggles so I'm just a couple of options that we that we have but and you also have some home buyer we do so we think that's so layer yeah we work with HUD where we have I believe it's twelve different educators that are certified to be HUD counselors or will be certified to be HUD counselors and they're offering one our first-time homebuyer counseling through Oh fuh mmm so it's a really great it's a really great thing that we offer so yeah contact your Extension Office yeah well thank you Amanda so much for being here today really appreciate having you and I think starting to have this conversation like you said will break down the barriers and address the stigma that surrounds financial stress if any of you listeners want to reach out to us our information will be in the credits and please again contact your local Extension Office if you'd like to get connected with any of our resources thank you for listening [Music]